Oops She Did It Again…

Posted: January 14, 2011 in Rants and Raves
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Once again my husband’s wonderful ex-wife has put me in a mood that makes me want to unleash hell on her life and bring her world crumbling down around her. I, once again, find myself doing breathing exercises to keep my temper in check.

Actually, in all honesty, it is her AND her new husband who have managed to piss me off today. What did they do? Her husband sends a text to my step-daughter wanting my step-son to call them — at 9:30 at night. Now, they know damn well that my step-son is in bed at this hour, yet they proceed to question my step-daughter as to why he is in bed so early (I’m sorry, I didn’t realize 9:30 at night was early for a school night). My husband is left with the task of texting the bitch letting her know that the younger children in this house go to bed at 8:30 because they have to be up at 6:30 in the morning to get ready for school. Why do they get up at 6:30? Because they have to be at school at 7:15.

Now, I understand that when you are the type of mother who leaves her children alone at all hours of the night you probably don’t realize that children need a solid 10 to 11 hours of sleep each night. And no, I’m not pulling that out of my ass. The National Sleep Foundation has done extensive research regarding this fact and have concluded that children between the ages of 5 and 10 need 10 to 11 hours of sleep each night in order to function properly. As a parent who actually gives a shit about her kids, I actually research these things. So on one hand it does not surprise me that this worthless woman questions my actions but on the other hand it pisses me off that her and her husband even think they can question a damn thing I do.

I am fed up and frustrated with having to deal with this woman’s bullshit. She doesn’t know how to raise children and she definitely doesn’t know how to be a good mother. Fine. Whatever. She can be a shitty mother all she wants and I will pick up the slack but if she thinks for one moment that she is going to question every single thing I do, she has another thing coming.

Comments
  1. teri says:

    So what do u do when your husbands ex wife hacks into your email account and starts sending letters out and makes false gragslist post. And then doesn’t allow u to see the child for 3 months and then odd of sudden a week before court your stepdaughter accusses u of abusing her and we have always been extremly close

    • princessjd says:

      First of all, I’d file a police report about the hacking of your email account. That falls into the realm of identity theft, which is a crime punishable by law. If there is a court order giving your husband visitation rights, then he should take her to court for violation of that order. As far as the abuse, you will have to prove that one if there are charges being filed against you. Ideally, you should hire an attorney. Again, I’m not a lawyer but that is how I would handle things. Of course, you can also fight fire with fire. You may want to tell this woman that you are going to press charges against her for identity theft if she is not willing to drop the false abuse charges.

  2. Henry says:

    Thank u for your tips . I’m a father trying to get my children out of a shitty environment and I feel frustrated because they. The social workers figure I just call to bitch for nothin. In reality I’m calling to complain about my concerns that had happened on the weekends. When they are not reachable unless its a true emergency . So now I’m understanding I need more proof so I’m gonna do my own investigation

  3. Courtney J says:

    My neice is about to be born, she will be born Addicted to drugs her “so called mother” has been using drug the entire pregnancy. This will be the 5th child born Addicted to drugs at the hands of this so called mother she has lost complete right of her 1st and 2nd children. She has also had had 3rd & 4th taken By in-laws they have perment gaurdianship. She is tfhing to kil.my neice . whom she got pregnant with in the middle of her devorice (BTW her ex-husbnd is a pedofile) who she is living with. So I really have to say anything more then HELP HELP HELP. My biggest fear is she will not contacte shsn she has the baby. She was married to.the pedofile when she got pregnant. Fro
    What I have been told pedofile by law. Can sign birth certificate.. Help HELP HRLP
    .

    • princessjd says:

      I’m not sure what state you live in, but if the baby tests positive for drugs at the time of birth CPS will usually step in and she won’t be leaving the hospital with the baby. Now usually I say stay as far away from CPS as you can but in cases like this, when the hospital is likely obligated by law to contact them anyway, there’s no way to avoid dealing with them. If that is the case I personally suggest contacting them, explaining the situation, and telling them you want to be considered for fostering/adoption if that is what you want to do.

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